Why we love someone and not the other?

The Reason Behind Love:)

If you are a normal adult, it is very likely that you have loved someone deeply at least once in your lifetime. You may also have noticed that you loved that person without any specific reason. And you could not love someone else though there could have been reasons. Well, it is wrong to deduce there is reason to love.

Nobody has actually been able to explain why we love? Of course, we love our family, job, nation etc..but very different is the love with someone who has a seat in your heart. Even great scientists, leaders, artists are normally said to have their energy of love transmuted into creation. Why love have so much power?

Why leaves are green and beautiful? 'Because of chlorophyll,' scientists explain. Still we are not satisfied with this answer. In the case of love also such explanations are available, but Helen Fisher not just tells about the Chemistry behind it, she explains the emotional and psychological aspects as well. Here is the speech on the science of love that she deleivered at the TED conference in US. Enjoy!

19 Tips for Successful life By Dalai Lama

1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson. 3. Follow the three Rs: Respect for self Respect for others and Responsibility for all your actions. 4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. 5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. 6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 8. Spend some time alone every day. 9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values. 10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time. 12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. 13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past. 14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality. 15. Be gentle with the earth. 16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before. 17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it. 19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.