August 3, 2008

Why we love someone and not the other?

The Reason Behind Love:)


If you are a normal adult, it is very likely that you have loved someone deeply at least once in your lifetime. You may also have noticed that you loved that person without any specific reason. And you could not love someone else though there could have been reasons. Well, it is wrong to deduce there is reason to love.


Nobody has actually been able to explain why we love? Of course, we love our family, job, nation etc..but very different is the love with someone who has a seat in your heart. Even great scientists, leaders, artists are normally said to have their energy of love transmuted into creation. Why love have so much power?


Why leaves are green and beautiful? 'Because of chlorophyll,' scientists explain. Still we are not satisfied with this answer. In the case of love also such explanations are available, but Helen Fisher not just tells about the Chemistry behind it, she explains the emotional and psychological aspects as well. Here is the speech on the science of love that she deleivered at the TED conference in US. Enjoy!

An Inspirational short Zen Story: Maybe



There was an old farmer who had worked his crops for many years. One day his horse ran away. Upon hearing the news, his neighbors came to visit. “Such bad luck,” they said sympathetically.


“Maybe,” the farmer replied.


The next morning the horse returned, bringing with it three other wild horses. “How wonderful,” the neighbors exclaimed.


“Maybe,” replied the old man.


The following day, his son tried to ride one of the untamed horses, was thrown, and broke his leg. The neighbors again came to offer their sympathy on his misfortune.


“Maybe,” answered the farmer.


The day after, military officials came to the village to draft young men into the army. Seeing that the son’s leg was broken, they passed him by. The neighbors congratulated the farmer on how well things had turned out.


“Maybe,” said the farmer.




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Achieve Success with Auto Suggestion

Have you read the all time classic 'Think and Grow Rich' by Napoleon Hill? Perhaps yes, because this book has been an all time classic since its publication. If not, this is the right time for you to learn the secrets of success that Hill has gathered spending more than 25 years and studying at least 2500 top successful people from around the world. So what are those (13) great principles of success? SharedTalks is going to present a summary of this book regularly for 13 weeks. Wait, read and give feedback.


1. The first principal for succes is an intense will or Desire of Achievement click here to read about it if you have not read it yet.

2. The second principle for success is Faith or visualization and belief in attainment of desire. Click here if you have not read it yet.


Now we are talking about the third principle of success: AUTO SUGGESTION.


The main idea of auto suggestion is that you should be success concious and at the time of hardships you shouldn't dismantle your bolts. If you want to become, for example, a writer, but you are a waiter now, don't suggest yourself that you are just a waiter and can never become a writer. Instead, think this way, 'Well I am a waiter now and it is a transit period for me. One day, I will definitely become a writer. To be a writer, I have to pass through all odds. All great writers have come through very low positions..well.' The meaning is not to say that a waiter is a low profile job. It is just an example. If you are a student and want to be a waiter in a five star hotel, then you should suggest yourself exactly that way.



Hill believes Skepticism, in connection with ALL new ideas, is characteristic of all human beings. But if you follow the instructions outlined, your skepticism will soon be replaced by belief, and this, in turn, will soon become crystallized into ABSOLUTE FAITH.

Our inner power is immense,but we have made so many walls and reasons to not to use it. We often think, 'who the hell I am to do this?' That is why combating the inner critic is much more important than defeating the outer critics.

Our next post will focus on Sucess and the importance of specialised knowledge.

 

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